another issue is entitlement due to natural instincts, yes all people who want to be with someone should be with someone, because people weren't made to be alone; but because you want to be with someone, doesn't mean everyone needs to be or should be.
A lot of people aren't built to be in relationships in todays atmosphere where partners aren't cultivated properly.
making a fairly neutral situation into a problem because you want to feel specifically the good parts about companionship that makes you feel good, not get into one to serve someone else but so you feel good- it's making something out of nothing.
A lot of those success stories is people letting nature run it's course, not force feeding nature wishes upon a star & expecting outcome on demand because you tried.
Causality don't work like that, accepting it may never happen contributes to it happening when it's supposed to.
And even if you got what you wanted, you won't appreciate it if you're desperate for it.
and if it doesn't happen, then it doesn't happen. with acceptance of denial of what you want is you avoiding disappointment of lack of something (despite the desire for it being natural instinct), still everyone is not even entitled to.
doesn't mean don't try, means don't over-extend for something that is a doorway to both positive and negative. Not anticipating it is time to be happy while waiting for opportunity to be happier vs expecting happiness to happen to you.
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