the source of healing & resolve is usually the source of the pain itself. And the source of that vitriol for him, was his father. Therapy could've possibly helped the boy see past his father, but what Andrew needed beyond an appointment, was hope & a better father, or a supplant father figure, a mentor, simple as that.
No one needs to sit in a chair, & pay me in order for me to tell them that, common sense stuff.
Therapy is a business, not a charity.
The go to isn't therapy 24/7, it's purpose, it's hope. Something you achieve on your own time.
Andrew needed hope, emotionally available hope.
So much of what we blow out of proportion in our minds can be fixed with our own will, you just need people around you with wisdom. And if you lack that network, then therapy is the way.
But just running to therapy skips the natural resolution process which is two simple things: Purpose & hope = something to live for.
Andrew just had bad luck & bad judgement.
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