a generation of boy-men raised by women (Fight Club 1999) quote

 

Tyler: Durden: My dad never went to college, so it was real important that I go.

Narrator : Sounds familiar.

Tyler Durden : So I graduate, I call him up long distance, I say "Dad, now what?" He says, "Get a job."

Narrator : Same here.

Tyler Durden : Now I'm 25, make my yearly call again. I say Dad, "Now what?" He says, "I don't know, get married."

Narrator : I can't get married, I'm a 30 year old boy.

Tyler Durden : We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.

men don’t walk out randomly for no reason after generations of nuclear families making it happen and women aren’t just itching to chase away men or be abandoned because that’s so fucking fun.

The issue happened in what society (collective human) itself thought was a priority and what it saw as trivial or outdated, and then people naturally picked up the vibe & gee, I wonder why dysfunction is the reward?

Who the culture put on a pedestal, telling them they can do it all & have it all as independents, even though they’re not the one’s building the cities, so in reality they are dependent but not powerless. That’s what people miss.

(Conflating dependence with powerlessness.)

(No different from how Katara is dependent on her friends but still powerful as shit- Dependence is not a weakness if it’s mutual, that’s how teams function. If one person is dependent and the other is not, parasitism can happen, one person is doing more work than the rest. )

Deifying one side and then left behind the other side to decline, incomplete cultivation, confusion, perpetual boyism and in many cases: willful self-destruction to escape from living, in whatever form that takes.

Escapism, decline, regression, devolution, fetishism — 

Ongoing boyhood. No Men.

And while the former side is being empowered, EVEN THEY still get systemically mistreated and violated. Thus also in decline.

So nobody wins. Nobody.

And then this society thought everything was going to work out just fine with all this disconnect spanning decades, lmfao, that’s not how that works.

The Future isn’t Female when females aren’t the one’s building the very foundation of the present nor are they dying for it;

The future belongs to the whole or it doesn’t exist.