"I hate everything about having a giantess fetish" /r

"I hate the fact that I want to give up my freedom to a horny giant."

we're not delivered into life to be destroyed, violated or played with; there's nothing to give your "freedom" up to, love yourself enough to let childish things go.

"I hate that I prefer tall girls. And the thought of the possibility of overlooking my soulmate just because I’m head over heels over a girl who’s taller than them."

Preferring tall girls is not a problem, hyper-fixation is issue. Don't view people through the lens of fetishism, if there's no logical/legitimate reason to why you're stuck on that one thing, then re-evaluate it, trace it back to the roots. Know thyself.

"Worse, what if that potential soulmate likes me back? What would they think about me if I overlooked them because of some stupid giantess fetish?"

it's not about what someone thinks. Even with the best VR experience-- it will still never exist, sustain, or bring any meaningful purpose, one can only play make believe. Thus a counterfeit anti-reality.

 

You need to decide if a counterfeit experience you feel beholden to surrender your freedom to for some reason, a parody mocking humanity, is worth prioritizing over the only life you'll have to live in THIS life. Let alone how you view other human beings because of how much real estate you might be giving to the deluded fixation, getting a grip on that is more important than what someone thinks.

"I hate the fact that I get chills when a tall girl stands over me, and I can’t help but grossly fetishize them."

Getting chills over something that basic, is trivial &, if you "can't help" it, take breaks.

 

Question it, always. But hating yourself / or the fetish, is pointless.

 Freedom is what you feel you have to give up, so your freedom for your mind is exactly what you take back. Divorce it through distance, make that the new habit, that's the only real way to take control.

"Owning it" or accepting it is just more surrender through adoption. Cope for cope, which is another means to submit to it to avoid letting it go because of lack of security without it, paradoxical. The illusion of control.
Start with 24 hours, upgrade to 2 days, & so on, without it. Once a week even, gradual.
Reality is the solution, to find security/protection/affirmation here. Not in Lalaland for entire life.

"I don’t want to think of taller girls as these protective gentle giants. I want to just want to think of them like I do everyone else."

As you shouldn't think tall girls as such, it's off-base. Good for you for questioning it..
"protective gentle giants" is both sweet in sentiment and a bit creepy just by how out of touch it is, because it's basically wanting mommy (the first significant giant in a babys life usually), which is GTS & 'shrinking' in a nutshell: regression, going backwards. Infantilism.

You are fully capable of seeing tall girls as they are (like everyone else), you need to give your brain a break from the nonsense, let it detox, doesn't mean the thoughts will just say "Bye" but if you're not pounding your mind with it, you're less likely to be ruled by it.
"I hate the feeling of inferiority, and the fact that it makes me hard."

Thin air can get a guy hard, it just happens dude.
Otherwise that's the era you live in, manhood crisis. Masculinity attacked constantly, boys lacking mentors. Fathers are inept, trivialized or just absent. #FutureisFemale, all that jazz

 

It's not like the West respects or honors men, the ppl that build EVERYTHING. So this desire for inferiority is not "weird", because we know where it comes from: western society's decline

 Its a consequence of Gynocentric declining civilization that men tangibly built & yet are neglected by constantly into feeling insignificant & having zero stake in it, thus many feel small.

 

It's a generational bondage for our boys, men in japan are going through something similar. This is why many retreat to the counterfeit for a false sense of security through surrender.

"I hate that to me girls are like some protective weapon, I don’t think of anyone as unworthy of my attention, but I can’t help but notice the giants because of my stupid fetish."

Because your mind was oversaturated with internet sewage, pounded into your head until the subconscious lens of the world was legitimately violated, that's how propaganda works, distortion of reality.
There's nothing wrong with you beyond what you're subjecting yourself to for no meaningful reason.
A fetish is not an inherent, nor a sacred trait ppl should just tolerate, it's not above challenge. It's an imprinting glitch. Random, not destiny.
It's not something mom or dad nor antiquity passed down to you as an evolutionary advantage. It's advantageous of absolutely nothing, a mockery of human connection, meaningless.
You have it on the brain, cause ya gave it too much real estate. Take a break.
Adulting 101: Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

"This isn’t a role play post. I genuinely hate having this fetish, and how it makes me fetishize people."

Understood, respect for you being brave to express dissent. More should do so.

 

Sexualizing a person and fetishizing them is not the same thing, one sexualizes when they see physical traits for reproductive purpose. Fetishizing is projecting unrealistic obsession specific based delusions specifically, not always sexual or for reproduction but paraphilia vs reducing someone to a thing of criteria, because a misconception one adopted.

 

Show adoration, but don't fetishize people. The fetish is not making you do anything, you're not powerless here, this is part of the lie of the fantasy bleeding into IRL. Your mind is acting out in times of arousal because it's been trained to associate one with the other from repeat reinforcements on your neurological pathways, especially if you splooge to it, it's science.

It's nothing worth hate, nor endorsement, it's worth overcoming. Try replacing it with something more productive, keeping busy, form new habits, learn a language, find something, re-train the brain.