it's not a bragging right, no relationship was built, no child, you accomplished nothing from clapping.
What is there to brag about when anyone can just lie & say they did it? lmfao
This is why this type of perception of masculinity is dangerous, cause If by some stroke of tragedy you were to lose your Johnson in some kind of car accident, crazy ex or something, then what? Your ego would never recover because your idea of being a man is so limited to one organ.
When your faux reality of manhood relies on penetrating vs actually being a man in merit & handling business, taking of your own, your kids, your lady. what happens when you don't even have a Richard or if you're gay, or asexual? I.e women don't fit in the picture. Then what?
We gotta evolve man. Manhood is so much more than just dipping it in someone just to say you did it like you're first one in history to do it. Little boy shit.
Cause then you trivialize the act, then it doesn't mean anything, why even do that to yourself.
You don't even need to do that to desensitize yourself to be jaded of sex, all you have to do is realize attraction to women by itself is not even something you want, it's an involuntary impulse, thus the feelings you feel for a crush, mean absolutely nothing because it's not you nor unique to who you are, it's a programming you can't turn off---
which is precisely why people cheat, because the program doesn't stop just because you got married.
That's how meaningless it is, it even drives people to betray their partners because the impulse has no romanticism.
The meaning of those feelings comes from how far you decide to invest in the person, otherwise you're just playing simulation based off of feelings you didn't even choose.
THAT's how you get desensitized, not wasting lifeclock sleeping with a thousand people, simply using your brain and realizing it's all just a fleeting impulse meant to get you to dance like a monkey at the slightest butterfly in your stomach.
A tool.
and if if 99% of your 20s was spent sleeping with 70% of your country, uhhhhh how on what planet: Do you think you're going to handle a stable 1 on 1 relationship? That's not how behavioral conditioning works.
You trained yourself to hop to from bed to the next and now all of a sudden you think you're ready for standing still when all you know is monkey branching, but my oh my I don't get why people cheat to sleep with other people when they've conditioned themselves to sleep with a bunch of different people.
Cause & Effect baby. Discipline.
And again, the meaning, depends entirely on how far you decide to give a shit about whoever it is you think you want in your life. Because if it doesn't last, you're proving the goddamn point. And if you just pursued because of visual impulse, the relationship began faulty and it ending was inevitable because how it began was hollow.
The meaning of the feelings is what you build out of it, justifying why beyond just what your chemicals signaled to you.
Couples becoming "different people" is what happens when the chemicals fizzle out & people's brains start working again. You need to justify it, so when your chemicals come down, and they will, your duo has something to stand on or just sink like most do.
And the majority of most important experiences for couples don't happen on dates, that's the crazy part.
