The Boys is an awful show (Kinkshaming is bad: Not really)

Unless I heard wrong, op criticizes that the show implies being remotely kinky being a bad thing is a bad thing. Then calls Orb Weavers kinks "weird", "fucking freak", whoah buddy. 33:14 Be consistent dude. All in all, it's okay to say Kinks is just childhood baggage, and people use sex as a coping mechanism for it, whatever it is the kink represents. Yes, it's weird, no majority of it is not okay. It's silly. It's not the best sign a childhood was well adjusted and a lot of it is people overcompensating for something in the past. ESPECIALLY the SM ones or the dom ones. The definition of it is "unusual sexual behavior", so yes if the overtone is Kink-isms is weird because villains do it, thus it's weird- it's correct because that's the definition of the word. And even if it wasn't, just look what people are doing just to get to the actual point of stimulation: The ACTUAL love making. In no language, in any context is Kink synonymous with "Adjusted", "Aspirational" or "Good job parents". The villains being the kinky ones fits in exactly what the word entails. You like your feet tickled while restrained? You have issues. Plain and simple It's no one's job to give you a cookie and say "Good job" for being a maladjusted whacko who somehow complicated a simple formula of reproduction. Who prolly got their feet stimulated by a friend or something as a child, maybe you were pinned down playfully & got tickled, you felt powerless (technically violated) and you just never let that shit go, now you call it this obsession a "kink", when it's just a coping mechanism . I promise you that's how easy it is to get a kink, children's minds are fragile man, none of this shit is normal, okay or natural. And notice how most of it doesn't come from a healthy place like your parents hugging you or something nice. It's usually something negative or off putting that births a lot of kinks, a lot of it is literally just repressed experiences you need to get out your system properly but all we want to hear is what we want to hear. Because path of least resistance is the NPC's default brain mode. There's a big difference between being rough, liking lingerie, a little oil body massage to rev her engines, oral VS wanting to be wrapped in plastic, balls stepped on, candle wax, whipped, kicked, spat on or some other stupid shit that clearly screams "Grow the hell up" This is one of few times the show was actually gangsta in it's subtext and probably unintentionally.

A comment reacting to The bonnie slap (The Boys S4)

Homelander's son is a simp. Feeling uncomfortable at someone else's presence does not create a moral excuse to ritually humiliate and degrade someone for being socially clumsy.

So what? Women being toxic is justified if their feelings say so. 

Woman anger is righteous and justified. Male anger is toxic and should be kept in check. 

That's the moral of the story. That and Ryan learning how to be weird, much to John boy’s pride. 

Subtext being: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯   Woman angst justified. Male angst is a threat. 

Don’t mind these statistics of boys killing themselves at a higher rate than women. Our top priority should be a woman in a workplace who’s uncomfortable because her co-worker said:

Him:  “Hi.”

Her:

Jokes aside, John making that girl jump last season, killing that guy and the people cheer, the plane incident. All insanity. That’s the point, collapse, insanity normalized, this woman going off over a first world problem, zero hesitation to assault this dude that (we have to presume) never struck her in the same way before, that’s the point, devolution.

Hence what Sage said when she met Homelander. The people, the “masses” will destroy their own civilization, we just have to be nudged.

The propaganda within the propaganda. The Boys perfectly mirrors IRL collapse because the writers are projecting so much meta into the show, the story itself is getting hijacked by the propaganda's own subtext.