"I would recommend that you relax and enjoy your fantasies" Firebrand said with a smile "You'll find that once you do, you'll be feeling less guilty about yourself, and less likely to think you'll do something you'll regret-"
36:40 Actually, the action we'll regret is not growing the fuck up and letting the fantasy go in the first place.
It's a fantasy for a reason, it's compensation for what we're not doing or haven't done or haven't received properly in life; otherwise to be a more complete person.
Fetishism is just cope, a jagged puzzle piece people JAM into a space where closure & growth should be.
Which is why most fetishes resemble a form of arrested development.
And this dude really projected that in their story akin to looking in a mirror and saying "Just do it", 36:40 There's no way this goof really wrote that in there.
Parenting is not a spectator sport.
This is why people need to think, these fetishes aren't a manifestation of something that went right in life. That's why it's a fetish and not an actual accomplishment.
This is like bashing your hand with a hammer until you stop feeling stimuli in it, you know it's counterproductive, doing the action adds nothing to your life, you're technically not hurting anyone else & it’s a form of “expression”-- and you get a kick out of it.
So desensitizing your NATURAL resistance to the idiotic engagement (which is second guessing yourself), vs pumping your brain with poison until you feel nothing is the best one can do, or rationalize it vs actually evolving as a person.
Numbing yourself to conviction is devolution, path of least resistance is the perfect formula to stay a prisoner in your own mind And for what. Absolutely nothing.
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