JLongbone on fetishes - no-kinkshame chronicles

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tsrzU0fqOp8

22:25 exactly the issue with fetishists

Most just end up emotional dumping their imprint misfires on the rest of the planet through the internet as if they're in the privacy of a room.

Then get wound tight when someone finally says the quiet part out loud; after making their issues everyones business in the first place: The premise of the linked timestamp.

100% confident as long as everyone's in on it.

However with that illusion of confidence, peacocking such mess in the public scheme, waaay beyond boorus and deviantart but on YOUTUBE & others , ten toes down, for years on end.

Then nothing but crickets or straight up panic when an NPC pulls up and says the quit part out loud, even if just ironically in passing.

And it's even WORSE if that person has receipts on the psychological/social lore behind what the fuck it is these people are even playing with for decades on end.

Lore that even psychologists aren't putting on the table, which is partly to blame for a good amount of this "explore it" enablement culture, cowardice.

Note: The OLNY natural phase of a fetishes origin is the fact that a child doesn't control when or what they're imprinting on. So errors can & do happen. Hence fetish.

• Nothing is wrong with one, us, you, or people cause imprinting errors happen, how far one takes it is when the accountability comes knocking.

Meaning a hyper-fixation/fetish on most paraphilia is essentially a brain glitch. A misfire, because your untrained, malleable child mind is conflating one thing with something else that it's not, because of a mistranslation stemmed from an emotion evoked by said thing in an underdeveloped brain.

• Which is explains why a lot of fetishists act like actual children in regression context or the fantasy is straight up infantile.

• Ppl get too caught up in the communities/cults, the illusion of security of owning it or this "embrace" shit when in reality it's a game of: "Tell me you're an addict without admitting you have issues you let fester like an infected wound"

So no, it's not permanent (dun dun duuun), nor a gift from the universe, nor an identity trait, it's not destiny, it's an adoption, DLC. Cope. A brain glitch.

Because "Neuroplasticity" exists

Look up "Neuro-plasticity", that's where this illusion of fetishes being identity or perma, or destiny or whatever they tell themselves to cope- comes from.

Despite this very modern sentiment of being protective of what is essentially a Windows Update Error in the human mind:

Fetishes are not sacred concepts no one can't ever challenge, it's not an orientation, it's an imprint misfire.

And if this is news to any of us because the "experts" want to destigmatize everything to save their own optics, or omit morality from study to avoid over-pathologizing (which in concept is an understandable reason) but miss the fact that to avoid over-pathologizing because they feel judgement of fetishes is either wrong or likely gratuitous-

that in itself IS A MORAL JUDGEMENT in the first place.

So morality in psychology is a problem, unless I decide to use my morality to say using morality avoid calling a spade a spade cause it will hurt people's feelings cause everyone's got a fetish, which is a lie, more people have kinks than fetishes.

A fetish is a statement of sexual ineptitude, that you NEED specifically some paraphilia in order to get going, which is a sexual handicap. Not a evolutionary advantage.

So this "hot harming anyone" clause deriving from destigmatization deriving from the MORAL decision to omit morality from psychological overview is a meaningless excuse #1, and at worst: hypocrisy and negligence, stemming from good intentions (where a lot of bad decisions come from).

Thanks experts, what would we do without you..

'Cope for a cope' is this narrative:

• "It's part of who I am",

• "owning it"

• "embrace the monster",

All this bullshit a damn child wouldn't say while huffing laughing gas, is coming out the mouths of grownass adults, desperate to exist; even as a disgrace if they have to.

Having a fantasy on the brain is not the fault of imprinting, that's called "immersion learning" or the like, it's how you learn a language, Basically repeat conditioning.

• So If you've rammed/ violated your mind without a condom with the same crap ad infinitum, it's not your childhood that caused your mind to be stuck on it, it's addiction that did that.

JLongBone in the video got it 1000%, and I've been saying this already. Half the issue isn't that sexual variations exist, if people didn't feel the need to push it everywhere on almost every platform BECAUSE they're insecure and need the world to pay attention, clamor in reddit/threads/ communities pumping out content looking for cheerleaders & handjobbers to tell them they did a good job being a doof.

Constant hunt for justification.

Some people have enough sense to get their lives together & remold what they're attracted to as a kink.

Kinks (depending on what it is) can add flavor to sexuality vs Fetishism is where instincts & braincells go to rot to instead buff regression & devolution stats.

Too much regression.

I Played 5 Weird Games That Had Mixed Reviews (A Macrocreep put a fetish game on Steam, not trolling)

Regarding the “giant woman” aka mommy issues simulator aka manhood crisis aka “Come hug your child, they need it-” fetish

I.e in this case: “girl shrunk the neighbors” nothing new here. Same ol same ol recycled “Cry for help”/ “Get off the internet & call your mom” red flags.

Dev needs to stop following in the footsteps of other macrocreeps & step outside the box. 

Could’ve even had each chic be a separate level in a different room, or represent different layers of protagonists own insecurities, give the little dudes a means to fight back or something, to metaphorically defeat his inflated insecurities. Like DO SOMETHING with this beside using the internet as your emotional punching bag like 99% of macrophiles do as is, go to therapy for that.

Innovate first, not all of us were battered & broken like dogs to laud women as gods & men as 5th class citizens to cower before them, some of us still have our balls still attached.

Make an option to fight back you coward, hell even Shrink High (as absolute garbage as those games were) gave that much to an extent! Ant Bully managed it, The mushroom men games did it.

If bro managed to code & cultivate this much (assuming this wasn’t a team), they can do better, this is just basics. Make the enemy npc into carnivorous eldritch aliens & winning the game is preventing an alien invasion or something, instead of this Honey I shrunk the kids crap- yet again.

At what point do these people step back & realize how childish, silly and corny this shit is. 

Women are not out to get you, they’re not your overlords, get a grip & grow up.

Cause all jokes aside? What was dude thinking? What even was this crap? How old is this guy with this stuff living rent-free in his head? An insecure 13 yr old with too much time on his hands? fine.

Teens get leeway to be morons, but a grownass adult? man or woman, doesn’t even matter. These people need a hug & positive reinforcement from women, not an internet connection.

As for the game = Tldr, trash, it’s been done, a lot.

And it, the fetish is not even weird, the people infected with it are weird. 

The fetish itself is an open book. It’s annoying, it’s embarrassing, invasive, misandrist, misogynist, misanthropic (meaning Anti-Human).

Strange yes, but not weird as in mystery or weird because of lack of information, because nothing about this is a mystery.

It’s a product of the times.. 

“It”- the fetish, is actually funny, hilarious because it’s so basic, it’s basically wanting mommy’s undivided attention. Psychologists telling ppl to “explore” it, now that’s way beyond weird & reckless.

But the game? predictable & depressingly consistent with usual standard macrocreep M.O, because insecurity is consistent. 

I get the vibe here that these cats dropping these games like this are doing it thinking they’re still on DeviantArt or something where the less than bare minimum (cringey/ unhinged GTS cliche’s) will appeal to their likeminded whackos & that’s enough. 

They think the only ones that will speak up are fellow low IQ cult members.

When in reality when you put your crap on public platforms that far out there? You’re getting ALL OUR attention, not just the attention your peer sycophants who will praise product for ticking all the right boxes macrocreeps look for like rabid mouth foaming crack addicts. 

They’re getting way too comfortable, frankly.

Hell I still remember that low budget Attack on Titan game from Feng Lee, that was my shit back in the day, all the homies was on those servers. Fighting giants, and it wasn’t on some weird fetishy bullshit. Hence why it was successful to BROADER audiences, including people who weren’t even anime fans.

If one can’t do that to make a game, if that fetish owns that much of your soul, better to keep that crap in those niche circles where the shit sundae is scarfed down with glee.

Or if the core concept comes from the fetish, maybe stop, a fetish is not that goddamn important.

The game has to stand on it’s own, because if it’s fetishy, it’s already starting off handicapped. I personally will be more critical because of that alone because of the lack self-restraint in the dev — the fetish is only going to get in the way of what could be a great game. I don’t give a fuck if it’s the most beautiful game in history on a graphical level, you push some ol’ macro bullshit, it’s ass.

Know when to NOT do something — “Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should” you don’t have to inject that crap into everything, and if you do?

Work on that, it’s not healthy. Women are not out to get you —so where is it coming from that in some ppls minds women are a source of pain & intimidation. That shit’s not cute, nor is it funny.

I’ve demo’d, played, seen and watched better children’s interactive learning games & experienced way better content in Plug n plays than just looking at this crap.

Next time, dev needs to give the player the ability to comatose an enemy NPC with a rare hornet sting or something, get Ant Bully with this joint.

 Stop with the fee fi fo narrative- apparently the point of the game was projection, not the game or making something cool.

• They will never make a great product with that goddamn fetish hindering every phase of production like a festering tumor, they really need to let that shit go if they seriously want to make content worth taking seriously.
• And if the point of this chiczilla simulator was projecting mental issues, or (generously) repressed emotional impairments as usual on the rest of the planet, then don’t put that crap on steam, keep it in your cult where it belongs, where being an embarrassment to your bloodline will be congratulated.
• Cause even if the game was on-point, even if it was decent, my question would still be: 

“Why tho? Are you that desperate?”

Fact is, for many of these cats, they need to understand that the rest of the world is not their brow beaten, misogynist yet purse whipped little macrophile cult. Stop making your mental issues our business.

If one wants to appeal to the mass public? They gotta stop clinging to that fetishes skirt for dear life, break free or pretend to be sane for a few months and actually give a proper GAME next time, unhindered.

Not asking for AAA, but not something so embarrassingly brokeback that I would NOT gift or recommend it to someone I hated either.

Critical Anime Overview #204: Rascal does not dream of Bunny Girl senpai

The MC/author is product of the times of modernized living creating housebroken boys and no men.

I feel so sorry for the ladies of this generation.

Stuck with a bunch of stockholm syndrome floormats that want to be abused & ridiculed 24/7 to feel the security of a woman's attention even if it's negative, likely because they didn't get enough of a woman's positive attention when it mattered.

Because that's the tune they've been conditioned dance by like tools either in the home or first world countries already misandrist propaganda.

American society treats boys like an accessory at best but Japanese males are so beyond hope at this point.

A lot of em crave almost every form of rejection or abuse ironically as a form of pleasure, that shit is not natural.

If you raise a child; healthy in the mountains or steppe countryside in a functioning socially competent village/community AWAY from cluster cities, away from mass media, they don't develop this bullshit, it just doesn't happen.

You only get this bullshit in stretched thin- abusive societies that are so successful they "THINK" they can afford to treat men and boys like garbage.

And then to no one's surprise a lot men and boys then internalize that cultural abuse & then desire more of it, ie. stockholm syndrome-- no different from a child seeking abusive partners because they normalized abuse from their parent as normal.

Same situation.

This is why boys need love and empathy. Parenting is not a joke lmfao.