JLongbone on fetishes - no-kinkshame chronicles

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tsrzU0fqOp8

22:25 exactly the issue with fetishists

Most just end up emotional dumping their imprint misfires on the rest of the planet through the internet as if they're in the privacy of a room.

Then get wound tight when someone finally says the quiet part out loud; after making their issues everyones business in the first place: The premise of the linked timestamp.

100% confident as long as everyone's in on it.

However with that illusion of confidence, peacocking such mess in the public scheme, waaay beyond boorus and deviantart but on YOUTUBE & others , ten toes down, for years on end.

Then nothing but crickets or straight up panic when an NPC pulls up and says the quit part out loud, even if just ironically in passing.

And it's even WORSE if that person has receipts on the psychological/social lore behind what the fuck it is these people are even playing with for decades on end.

Lore that even psychologists aren't putting on the table, which is partly to blame for a good amount of this "explore it" enablement culture, cowardice.

Note: The OLNY natural phase of a fetishes origin is the fact that a child doesn't control when or what they're imprinting on. So errors can & do happen. Hence fetish.

• Nothing is wrong with one, us, you, or people cause imprinting errors happen, how far one takes it is when the accountability comes knocking.

Meaning a hyper-fixation/fetish on most paraphilia is essentially a brain glitch. A misfire, because your untrained, malleable child mind is conflating one thing with something else that it's not, because of a mistranslation stemmed from an emotion evoked by said thing in an underdeveloped brain.

• Which is explains why a lot of fetishists act like actual children in regression context or the fantasy is straight up infantile.

• Ppl get too caught up in the communities/cults, the illusion of security of owning it or this "embrace" shit when in reality it's a game of: "Tell me you're an addict without admitting you have issues you let fester like an infected wound"

So no, it's not permanent (dun dun duuun), nor a gift from the universe, nor an identity trait, it's not destiny, it's an adoption, DLC. Cope. A brain glitch.

Because "Neuroplasticity" exists

Look up "Neuro-plasticity", that's where this illusion of fetishes being identity or perma, or destiny or whatever they tell themselves to cope- comes from.

Despite this very modern sentiment of being protective of what is essentially a Windows Update Error in the human mind:

Fetishes are not sacred concepts no one can't ever challenge, it's not an orientation, it's an imprint misfire.

And if this is news to any of us because the "experts" want to destigmatize everything to save their own optics, or omit morality from study to avoid over-pathologizing (which in concept is an understandable reason) but miss the fact that to avoid over-pathologizing because they feel judgement of fetishes is either wrong or likely gratuitous-

that in itself IS A MORAL JUDGEMENT in the first place.

So morality in psychology is a problem, unless I decide to use my morality to say using morality avoid calling a spade a spade cause it will hurt people's feelings cause everyone's got a fetish, which is a lie, more people have kinks than fetishes.

A fetish is a statement of sexual ineptitude, that you NEED specifically some paraphilia in order to get going, which is a sexual handicap. Not a evolutionary advantage.

So this "hot harming anyone" clause deriving from destigmatization deriving from the MORAL decision to omit morality from psychological overview is a meaningless excuse #1, and at worst: hypocrisy and negligence, stemming from good intentions (where a lot of bad decisions come from).

Thanks experts, what would we do without you..

'Cope for a cope' is this narrative:

• "It's part of who I am",

• "owning it"

• "embrace the monster",

All this bullshit a damn child wouldn't say while huffing laughing gas, is coming out the mouths of grownass adults, desperate to exist; even as a disgrace if they have to.

Having a fantasy on the brain is not the fault of imprinting, that's called "immersion learning" or the like, it's how you learn a language, Basically repeat conditioning.

• So If you've rammed/ violated your mind without a condom with the same crap ad infinitum, it's not your childhood that caused your mind to be stuck on it, it's addiction that did that.

JLongBone in the video got it 1000%, and I've been saying this already. Half the issue isn't that sexual variations exist, if people didn't feel the need to push it everywhere on almost every platform BECAUSE they're insecure and need the world to pay attention, clamor in reddit/threads/ communities pumping out content looking for cheerleaders & handjobbers to tell them they did a good job being a doof.

Constant hunt for justification.

Some people have enough sense to get their lives together & remold what they're attracted to as a kink.

Kinks (depending on what it is) can add flavor to sexuality vs Fetishism is where instincts & braincells go to rot to instead buff regression & devolution stats.

Too much regression.

Harley Quinn Fartacular: Stupid Butt Deadly - The writer had no confidemce in this

 

"If you are grossed out by farts, then this comic isn't for you (and that's perfectly okay!... though I am judging you!). Unless you want to put your feelings to the test... in which case this comic is for you."

Why the preemptive defensiveness tho ? lol,  so insecure they pre-emptively judge the people without the mental issues or disposition because they themsevles know exactly what the rightful reaction will be. 

Think about it, fam took it upon themselves to counter argue something people did not say yet, talking about "put your feelings to the test" what the hell does that even mean? 

Is the book good or not?! 

Fact is, Instead of keeping it on deviantart  they decided to use a character they didnt create to make their childhood misfire the worlds business, then wants to gaslight you that if you dont like it you're the one whose wilding. In a joking tone ofc but not rly.

People are too comfortable, they are not telling stories vs just using these IPs to project and vent fetishes like a teenager with some serious growing up to do. 

Its the same shit Mangaka do, its ridiculous, there is a time and a place for everything. Your childhood imprint misfires does not need to be the worlds business and if you have to make it our business, then dont get defensive in advance because you know you wrong. 

You are not the main character.

The only thing redeeming in this trash heap is the Harley teamup with a certain meta-elongated League member. Underrated duo wasted on a garbage book. 

"I've been holding in all my very worst bits of bubble guts for the last 32 years, and it's all been leading up to this epic expulsion" 

And this was the best you could do? I've seen funny fart gags, Starer doesn't know how to use irony to land a joke. Abusing the same punchline for sake of it defeats the comedy potential, they say its their worst bits when its just them wanting to see digestive exhaust, Lmfao. Goofy aaa

"You look like a stripper if the stripper was a baby." - Comedy gold, Joanne, comedy flipping gold **👏slow clap👏

Koichi thinks we should "respect" people's fetishes

 "we oughta respect people's fetishes" 

Right, just like you'd respect a tumor-- its not "harming" anyone else sure, but it isn't doing you any favors now is it? 

 A lot has been said that was stupid from Kohei's take, but that is truly top 3 dumbest & bluntly random as hell lines of dialogue in MHA as a whole.  (Horikoshi didn't write MHA:Vigilantes but he might as well have, it's the exact same level of hack & mediocrity)

And its irresponsible, because I'd say the same if it was some parental failure drooling over their computer on a booru site but these 3 are actually assaulting women in-world, and Ko-Kun is just talking to them like they're just regular salarymen too shy to talk to women and he's giving them pointers--- Which actually would be a much better scenario. 

Less predatory and creepy.    vs Giving alternatives on how to get off on specifically the panties of kids.  Enabling mental issues that they need to get fixed, actually.  But that warrants respect, cause god forbid ppl judge anything & keep each other in check, maintaining a sane society, lmfao.  

 The Main character everyone, Koichi the hack.   Deku is corny, he's boring, passive mc, he extended a hand Tomura didnt deserve but Deku never pulled no crap like this.  Such a damaging few panels, small nothing moments like this that add up over the years & DID NOT age well.  

Here I am coming to Vigilantes wanting a break from KH writing quirks, but just like MHA Smash, this author also has a projection problem.  These cats really dont understand Superhero comics no more than woke leftists. 

Either way someone is projecting some foolishness that doesnt belong in the narrative about Heroes, or whatever their definition of a hero is that week.   with Mangaka you really gotta cross your fingers that you get a writer who acts their age & writes worth a damn that'd be half as good as a 2000s Nickelodeon childrens show.

The genre really deserves better than this 

"western society has derailed"

Grown little girl still playing with toys, no woman in sight. See I can get wanting an assertive Miss Lady in the sheets, it's exciting, the back & forth, the rough physicality, that's design.

But what does getting crushed to death & genocide have to do with sex. That's where you enter the realm of "overcompensating for something", "bad cope", "Are you okay?" Territory.

This is why empathy, common sense and accountability are so necessary when bringing up children. Because even if you teach them right, you never know what they're internalizing from what they watch or what they hear in the society machine. Seeds of weakness planted.

This why criticism is needed, when you don't? The Loons run the asylum. Grass is blue, and gravity is a myth. If I think I float, you think i float, if the party thinks I float? Then I a float (1984 Reference)

People like this are comfortable to do this because insecure people/ fanatic mouthbreathers enabling her ego make her think she's important, when the reason she's doing this is she's overcompensating for something in her own life, nobody secure and with priorities is doing this kind of thing for such a weak reason. A narcissist preying on emotionally unstable people who need actual help and therapy & maybe a hug from their mother and father.

This is the damage toxic gynocentrism does. Not that women having rights caused this, but TOXIC gynocentrism, misandry, female privilege.

*Someone else here said it, "western society has derailed" Boom.*

10000% And that's the point, from the disconnect between men & women in culture since the century turned, putting men down in tv shows & media since the century turned planting that seed of inferiority complex, dropping birthrates since the 1970s, blatant sabotage.

_Macrophilia is just a by-product of toxicity, which is why it reads like a psychological complication than a genuine kink, a lot of people are just projecting issues. Inflated mommy issues._

All of this is to make society weak from within, making the men weak beaten dogs begging for subjugation from the goddess in their head, and that's what the women in real life are stuck with- submissive weaklings. A bunch of boys, and no men.

*When you're stuck in fantasy land like a mentally suspended child that refuses to let go of mommy's skirt/ thus her authority, you want to be small and vulnerable like a child, it's literally suspended development. Forever a weak human being, a prisoner within your own mind. *

Obsessed with growth precisely because you refuse to grow up.

There comes a time when an adult must let childish things go to evolve, Macrocreeps (among others) areas what happens when you don't. It's why they're so predictable, they do not change or evolve.

Propaganda and misandry ain't a joke family, gynocentrism literally created a sub-culture of people with mass stockholm syndrome. A whirlpool of insecurity and abuse.

Could you imagine a Regime weaponizing this kind of phenomenon for psychological warfare, or if this was on purpose?? My god, Make an entire population want submission to the State on some "1984" vibe. Sheeesh.

Sex & coupling, men & women aren't a complicated concept. This macrocreep crap? Is what you get wen your brain does something it's not supposed to do, when your environment convinced you to want abuse. Or? Your defense mechanism to abuse was to normalize it.

_Our boys & men need more support & love from society, this ugliness is only born from ugliness._

Nothing to do with sex, and everything to do with personal problems.

And this fool has the absolute nerve to claim it's therapeutic, no THERAPY is a SOLUTION, this is exacerbation, exploitation, exploiting people so you can feel good about yourself. This person is another hallmark of "Womanhood" as an honor is dying a slow, horrific death.

Indulgence in the obsession is propagating the issue, inflating it like an infected swollen wound, not fixing it. When western propaganda & abuse of men caused this shit in the first place.

It's like a neurological virus, Brain Malware, which why these goofballs feel the need to spread it everywhere as a virus does in nature.

That's the power of propaganda, convince you to want your own suffering.

Painting women like psychopaths, something women are NOT, the threshold of life being portrayed like genocidal overlords, pure misogyny and projecting illness.

And again, it's sickening that these sorry excuses for women exploit that abusive mentality, an eco-system of matriarchal toxicity because these women most likely are non-factors in real life with zero control over their own situations and instead of just getting their lives together they need to step on toys & take selfies of their mouth to get validation. Absolute disgrace.

Nice one, America.

Really doing a number on these kids, holy moly. Woman is god, Genocide is a fucking game, and men/women/human life is expendable.

Absolute emotional damage, psychological damage, civilization collapsing- hence why the popular delusion is a woman destroying civilization:

These fools are visually projecting/communicating that gynocntrism/ women are the downfall of civilization.

And some psychologists will claim this fetish sprouted because of a lack of female empowerment........in a society where women hyper-empowered and instead it's men that need support for once.

Giant women destroying cities (including children & babies) thus (A woman with any power is the undoing of civilization) Definitely not misogyny.

Absolute clowns. Perpetuating hate over and over and over and over and over and over, it's never enough, it never ends, because it's not a solution, it's a prison for your mind. The Matrix was ahead of it's time baby.

Macrocreeps and Macrophilia are a symptom of western Society failing on a fundamental human level, your civilization is coming apart, not immediately but derailing still.

By wanting women to get ahead, you left men behind entirely. And by doing that & even the reverse, you failed both sides.