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Saturday, July 20, 2024

(Why is “Mansplaining” a thing but “womansplaining” is not?) — Response to 2 Reddit comments


It is possible. I think it’s called femsplaining. Oh wait.. my mistake.. it’s only acceptable to make fun of and disrespect men. Also, I’m half Mexican. So when I explain something, am I committing the crime of Mexicansplaining? Of course not.. because it’s derogatory and disrespectful to say that. But for some reason Mansplaining gets a pass because it’s directed toward men.
The Dunning Kruger effect is not exclusive to men, so let’s stop using the term “Mansplaining”. Let’s just call the person an idiot for attempting and failing to explain something he or she isn’t knowledgeable about. Call that individual out for being dense, not their entire sex. I can’t believe I have to Tallsplain this.

Precisely. The whole thread should be closed because you just squashed all of this childish nonsense in one comment.

All it is is just more tactics from up top to turn women against men by feeding women’s ego’s and make them think men can’t teach them anything and plant this delusion that men are the only one’s that interrupt and interject during conversation to fact-check when women do the exact same thing.

Plant seeds of disconnect between males & females yet again, make men either docile drones afraid to say anything or frustrate and make them resent the society they live in or women in general.

And inflate women further and make them think they’re an exception.

Just more disrespect and emasculation of men, and women get to run their mouth & talk down to whoever they want and there’s no term or slang for that popularized.

The issue is the hypocrisy, everyone’s always on the same page when it’s men’s turn to be held accountable but when it’s women’s turn, then it’s debate.

When the “reverse” argument is introduced, there’s always an excuse. This is why most modern women are insufferable, and it’s not even their fault.

Because the people planting these seeds of strife aren’t everyday people.

Nothing but perpetuated misandry, orchestrated tension for absolutely no reason but for a very specific reason.

Americans disrespecting men openly, then it’s no wonder why their birthrates are going lower and lower and lower.

You don’t get to castrate one of the paragons of civilization and expect prosperity, anyone would have to be psychotic if you think constantly smothering men with hatred and disdain will result in a successful flourishing society.

It will never happen.

Where are all these terms to divide us coming from? And why don’t we ever get slang or terms to bring men and women together? Almost as if we’re being orchestrated to perpetually fight over and over again ????????
And this is ‘impossible’ or not heard of in reverse?

The fact that you have to ask is part of the social-conditioning, the mind game. Inflate women’s ego’s while breaking men like dogs for anything and everything they do.

And when men walk away or unplug from society or give up on women; then say men need to “step up”, men cannot get a goddamn break.

It’s both possible and heard of, it’s called being an A-Type personality, awkward or being rude. Last I checked, last I lived I’ve met women of all 3 categories.

It happens often, especially in corporate or boxed-in office settings where ego’s clash. Because to interrupt someone to explain something or the concept of interjection of someone mid-sentence to add a comment (aka being rude)- contrary to popular belief is something anyone with confidence, ego or assertive traits can do.

It’s not impossible or unheard of, it’s just more politically correct to chastise men when they do it and when women do it, call it “Girlboss” or “CEO mentality” or something.

Always some positive reinforcement when women are toxic, but yank a man’s sack when he does it.

What’s happening is some women get interrupted, they don’t know how to react. So instead of coping with it (clapping back), or ? Like a big girl assert her case to the person interrupting her, or confront them after and just ask them not to do that. Instead don’t make the action the problem instead make men doing the action the problem.

So the undertone of “Mansplaining” is: “It’s okay when women are rude.”

Otherwise what happens when a woman interrupts a woman? Just call it being rude, just like with a man, why politicize it?

But you see this is the power of division through language, “rude” is not gender specific, you can’t weaponize that. It’s too neutral.

The point is to single out men and exclude them, while calling society tolerant.

The agenda here to turn women on men (yet again), so to do that we have to be as counterproductive as possible so to insert “man” as the pre-fix you completely remove accountability from women (as usual) and thus the ball is forever in a man’s court when the word is used despite women doing the exact same thing when it’s convenient, because while I’ve met plenty of people who interrupt to assert dominance, most people are subconsciously doing this because they’re excited or invested in the conversation or just dense to how that would make the other person feel.

I myself have developed an assertive conversationalist air BECAUSE I’ve been interrupted myself by people, and it manifested as a defense mechanism to compete in conversations, rising to the occasion.

But you see when I do it I catch myself and or transition back to what they said prior to my interjection with an added apology for the interruption (not groveling but a quick “My bad for cutting you off” acknowledgement) and life & the conversation moves the fuck on. No slurs, no buzz words, no drama, just adults doing as grownass adults do.

Edit: And sometimes, whether people want to admit it or not; Adulting is not a sport where you get your hand held, sometimes pushing your case is necessary to sell a product, yourself, your services. And a useful life skill in case you need to socially get yourself out of a situation you might be held hostage in [Which I personally have used interjection for many many times and it’s saved me from getting burned]: Namely for most people, helping close a conversation that’s dragging on because the person keeps talking or wants to rope you into something, that’s another thing I’ve had to develop various social calluses for, because SO MANY times I got roped into stupid crap because some of us don’t know how to say “no” or relied on people’s consideration when what will save you is you cutting it short.

You can’t accomplish that without interjection or being rude to an extent. You have to be that guy or gal sometimes. So cutting-in? Is actually a useful skill to use responsibly.

Otherwise, holding rude people accountable, good. Painting a fallacious narrative that only men are rude in this context of conversation, why? (Well we know why, don’t we?)

The term is a sure method to antagonize men, and make women the self-righteous passive party despite the concept of conversational interjection being a human trait, not a male trait.

It’s just society & various agents yet again planting seeds of disconnect to further drive apart the sexes on a broader scale

(How do I know this? Well simply put: Why aren’t there creative terms to bring women and men together? Why is it always negative? Because discord is the agenda, chaos. Marxism baby; Destroy the power of two, to destroy the family, the birthrates, conquer the two, to conquer the all) And the foundation of that collapse is to break the male, break them by any means necessary, not all at once but very very slowly: The slow knife cuts deepest.

And the easiest way to do that is by weaponizing one of two things they’d die for, Women.

The entire point is to drive men and women apart through subliminal messaging or not so subliminal. Strife, tension, divide, fighting, politics, misunderstanding, pretense, lies, lies, lies.

Why? Because people in unity are harder to control than masses arguing over a made up word that only exists to put a halo on women’s heads.

And it’s not women’s faults, I know it’s ironic to say women aren’t held accountable then say it’s not their fault but it’s true.

Women as a whole aren’t sitting in a basement thinking up dumb shit like this-

Words like this come from corporations, people with pull, money, influence: Up top so it bleeds down, that’s how it works. Fed to groups then fed to masses, propaganda.

In a Tv show, an article, thus fed to women to start a domino effect and it works every time. Because antagonizing men is part of American culture.

The part that really gives it away, is how one-sided it is. And when some men speak up It’s usually from a place of anger or distance, or frustration, it’s why MGTOW in concept is brilliant (like feminism), but in execution- a total failure, a reaction, not a solution.

And by “disconnect”, that doesn’t mean people aren’t hooking up anymore, the point is to control the narrative, disconnect the unity of the groups as a whole.

Because individually; hookup culture is still going strong.

Propaganda forming disconnect doesn’t mean people aren’t dating or getting married still, it means on a broader scale sex has been drilled into people’s routine so much it’s become trivialized. So even if you “have” someone, does it even last? Does that even mean anything? Or is it just a social statement until the inevitable failure among the rest.

That seems to be the consistent legacy of most relationships: failure, break up; Disconnect.

It doesn’t mean anything, it’s just something you do. So imagine how trivialized children are, or the family? Hence the birthrates.

Yes people are still doing it, but it’s routine, it means nothing because it means less than nothing to the country, clearly.

Men going their own way from Women is exactly what the powers that be want, reactive disconnect. You’re just playing into the hand.

Grandmaster Level Chess: frustrate men into either wanting to be destroyed by women deified, abusing women, trivializing women, replacing women (waifu’s by the social rejects or sexbots *something a lot of MGTOW overestimate*) or abandoning women- either way, the natural state of men and how they instinctively want women is perverted, twisted and disfigured. Deranged even. (Macrocreeps in a nutshell, deranged, defanged & broken)

The one’s doing it the right way are the outlier hence why the birthrates are dropping. People are getting married, having kids, but it’s not enough to make up the difference, as we can see in the numbers, and it’s not just America.

And all while you think you’re making a conscious decision when all most of us are doing is just reacting to a mass skit. Reactive tactics that are not working.

Because really think about how silly this is, that anyone would say “Mansplain” in a serious context and not be laughed out the room, that sounds like an SNL gag.

Yet now it’s gotten to the point where people are asking questions because the broader culture has been infantilized so successfully, they actually take the word seriously to be a topic of discussion on live television, sometimes in Political houses on National Television i’ve heard the word “Mansplain” used, and nobody laughed, lunacy.

This is how far we’ve fallen from the basic instinct of “Unite = Survival”, we’ve traded unity for convenience, and survival is what we’ve sacrificed. And we won’t get that as a species until it’s too late.

Mankind has been played so hard it’s not even funny.

Heard of Connect-Four? Well all this is a long-game of Disconnect-Two, as usual.

Responding to Youtube’s Comment Guideline threats again (7–20–24)

 


I don’t appreciate you threatening my comment ability for the 5th time over some replies, how many times do I have to say this: I’m going to say what I want, why? Because I’m a grownass man, grow up please and stop policing people like this is a martial law state.
If you want to turn Youtube into a Daycare center or a Fascist state where everyone has to live in fear of what Youtube comment bots might punish them for, that’s your prerogative, good luck with that; all you’re going to do is encourage people to go to another website.
But I’m going to say what I want, I don’t attack people personally, and I don’t insult people’s mother’s or curse their children, none of that, so threatening my ability to speak or threating to terminate my nothing channel that I have zero attachment to is you trying your best to flex muscle that you don’t have.
You’re not intimidating bud, so stop trying to be something you’re not.
I say what i mean and i mean what i say, so don’t play with me, and don’t waste my time with your childish bullcrap.
whatever you think is “hate speech” is a you problem, get over it. I live in the real world.
I’m not changing how I speak because of what you might do If I don’t, frankly, no one on this site is scared of you.
Apparently Free Speech is a joke to you but it’s not to me.
It’s my right and I’m going to exercise it tomorrow just as I did yesterday.
I’ve been on this site for 13 years, and no one’s life has been destroyed over some comments I left, sometimes I run my mouth but life is a journey to better yourself, that’s the entire point of making mistakes.
Otherwise: Please, please, I’m begging you, please, stop being so sensitive. And grow a pair.
Life isn’t an elementary school classroom, I find it absolutely hilarious that you think you’re in any position to try to control how people speak in a country where the FIRST Amendment is free speech. The FIRST ONE.
Remove all the comments you want, if it makes you feel better.



Youtube is really a prototype for America’s [1984] arc, and if you look at one of the parties that funds Google, and Google that owns Youtube: It makes sense.


And I get it, if someone’s telling a person to self-terminate; Is it ugly, yes. Wrong? Yes. 

But putting tape over people’s mouths is a slippery slope and this is what you get; Martial Law, the prototype.

People who don’t even say anything inflammatory are getting threats by the site itself because of what the bot subjectively deems as “hate speech” whatever the fuck that means, literally, “Hate speech”, you telling me my shoes look tacky could be hate speech, should you lose your job over it? Stupid terminology made up by illogical people that just want to weaponize words to oppress people. that’s all this is, and i’m sick of it.


This “hate speech” era and all these made-up phobia’s started showing up around 2013-2015, and it hasn’t stopped sounding stupid since. It’s like the country is racing to be the laughing stock of the planet.


People who say dumb crap get policed by public opinion, and then it’s their right to either defend or cave-in or concede. That’s the system, it’s how we deal with outliers in real life.

We the people are the correction system, that’s why it’s so out of place for these sites to overstep this much to tell you- 

We’ll silence you or take your channel:

Oh NOooo don’t take a channel I make zero money off of, anything but that- pricks.


I can’t tell you how many times I’ve made Mods from Social media sites cave-in to reason over email because I pressed them over idiotic TOS; Exception being DeviantArt, the guy was nice but apparently it was out of his hands to do anything about the situation, so I gave him a break and backed off & took the L. 


But all in all, these sites really need to calm down and stop trying to be everyone’s parent. 

Saturday, June 22, 2024

The Average American's defense mechanism of waving a white flag before they can even speak their mind is reminiscent of rules of engagement in a 3rd world country.

I genuinely get annoyed whenever people talk about women or LGBT or another protected group,  then the commenter in question recites the preemptive classic “To be clear, I don’t hate- [insert group]” as a defense mechanism.

That’s really indicative as to how hostile, how toxic the culture is or just reeks of a horrible atmosphere.


We live in a world where certain groups are associated with being oppressed  when ironically they have the tightest grip on everyone’s ball-sack (in a corporate/political sense).


A privilege so normalized we don’t even see the irony that people have to put up defenses before saying ANYTHING just to curb a groups wrath, but if a Gov. does the exact same thing that’s called “oppression”, a protected group enjoys that privilege, we don’t call it anything, that’s just normal that they enjoy the same social pull as a mafia family whenever the group’s name is in someone’s mouth. 

Funny how that works. 


Those are the kind of rules of engagement you have to abide by when you live in a 3rd World country and the slightest utter of heresy gets you dragged out of your house and punished Ie. “canceled”

This is the same exact energy, except you could lose your livelihood, platform, etc. 

So basically certain aspects of America’s modern social climate resembles a 3rd world prototype. And we’re okay with that.


“Inclusive“, “tolerant“ indeed, bullshit.



It wouldn't be annoying for someone to just clarify their intentions to be nice or a decent person, but everyone is doing it on reflex out of legit concern for their online career, "fear".  Which has nothing to do with a friendly clarification vs rules of engagement people feel they have to do just to survive in their social economy.

That reeks of 1984 energy.


Speak in Newspeak or go missing type of shit, in this case, canceled, fired, banned, gone, erased. Punished.

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As far as social climates go, that’s unhealthy and inefficient.

iDubbbz Is Struggling.

16:30 Yeah that's a very bad habit (rebel phases of a generation has) namely this generation where people where the fact that they have issues or doing something wrong is considered cool points and to cope with the guilt or conviction of that  they wear having issues like a badge to be ironically contrary but they're genuine in that it makes them look empowered or some shit.

Some people really need to cope by getting beside the fact that taking accountability makes you feel awkward, but it needs to happen. So does growing up

So inversely if you don't own it to take accountability, you don't grow up. It's just borderline suspended development disguising itself as confidence.

Monday, June 17, 2024

Onlyusemeblade’s Girlfriend Realises She’s Failed In Life While Blade Is Passed Out Behind Her (The necessity of judgement. Criticism with a point- isn’t something to fear or resist)

 

https://youtu.be/8wQzD_egoLg

And this would have never happened if their first concern was making her feel good about herself.

She made a gesture at the dig, as if she’s used to abuse, and then to her own surprise constructive criticism was attached to it. She wasn’t ready for it.

This is why criticism and judgement is necessary in any society. This right here is why being an asshole sometimes is necessary to push the point with consideration at the same time, to be honest.

When everyone’s calling you amazing, & pretending insanity is the new normal.

It takes one person going against the grain to change your entire pathway in life or at least plant the seed of change

They tried her as an adult, not a “girl”, an ADULT woman. And it got through.

whoever that was, they’re ahead of most people.

The true meaning behind “lest ye be judged” is essentially: (I hold you accountable, you hold me accountable), it’s supposed to be a perpetuating cycle of accountability, by design. Not a “gotcha!” tactic to shut someone up.

Validation, empowerment, cosigns and blind reinforcement does not help. It pads, exacerbates- they’re not solutions.

ACCOUNTABILITY, criticism, concern/ HUMANITY is what saves people/us from ourselves.

There’s a big difference between hate (A reason why, but with no constructive point) and criticism (with both a reason and at least a solution or an explanation attached to it. A point, at least.)

Saturday, April 20, 2024

“TikTok to restrict users who repeatedly post problematic topics from ‘For You’ feed” (Restrictions & Censorship = Red flags)


Some will “this is fine”, others “it’s their site, so why not”

It being their site is irrelevant, the site is nothing without our engagement. Just because they can, doesn’t mean they should. Period.

This censorship movement is just getting worse & worse & worse in real time before our eyes.

YouTube has the same exact issue, these sites think they have to be the Authoritarian State of righteousness at the expense of people’s fullest experience ie. being able to actually enjoy the site’s good, along with the bad. A diverse experience.

Because what’s going to happen is they’re going to keep adding more and more criteria, moving the goal post here & there until no one is going to be able to do or say anything unless it’s one narrative and one narrative only.

That’s how fascism operates, the worst decisions ever made usually begin from good intentions. Censorship on a creative platform is just asinine.

You go out of your way to protect people, you’re not helping them. Shielding people from things they don’t like is going to make them ill-prepared for the situations if they have to deal with it in real life — on an emotional level.

You’d be surprised how many people just pull out their phones to supplant a reaction in a crisis, or just freeze up or don’t know how to process it because they’re so used to being kept in a crib on social media where everything is amazing & “inclusive”.

Same with Reddit, same with YouTube, etc.

A culture like that cultivates weak people, the effects of social media on our psychology in real-time is not a joke, it’s a real phenomenon.

True Inclusiveness includes negativity, hence Inclusive. You don’t simply redefine what Inclusive means to be strictly urban dictionary because there’s a specific group or 2 that you want to feel exceptional: That’s what this is really about.


Or the usual suspect: Controlling Information

Misinformation
Conspiracy theories that are unfounded and claim that certain events or situations are carried out by covert or powerful groups, such as “the government” or a “secret society”
Moderate harm health misinformation, such as an unproven recommendation for how to treat a minor illness
Repurposed media, such as showing a crowd at a music concert and suggesting it is a political protest
Misrepresenting authoritative sources, such as selectively referencing certain scientific data to support a conclusion that is counter to the findings of the study
Unverified claims related to an emergency or unfolding event
Potential high-harm misinformation while it is undergoing a fact-checking review

Very convenient. So with that said, “misinformation” is whatever you say it is, or if a certain entity or two decides they want you to silence someone who’s talking too much, you have it in the rules that you can shut them up by just labelling their speech (factual or not) as “misinformation.”

Very VERY convenient clause there. Because as we all know, the only reliable source are the one’s controlled by the powers that be, that’s never gone south ever in human history, only the branded corporations with clear bias & political leanings: Are the one’s you should listen to.

Right.



Not Inclusiveness, exceptionality. Emotional preservation. A bubble. Control. 

To exclude an aspect of an experience because you “feel” it’s harmful is admirable, but it’s not diversity.

Diversity is broad expanse of different experiences, if you’re censoring because you want people to experience what you want them to, according to your own dogma, that’s not diversity, that’s an echo chamber. A singular digest.